“Consider it pure joy....whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”...James 1:2-4.
In spite of the pain you can become a stronger and better person. Sometimes it seems difficult to have the proper perspective when we are going through a trying time. But to continue to allow feelings of despair to overwhelm us is neither healthy nor wise.
Remember that God works through distress to bless. Every trial can bring us closer to God if we let it.